Be a Beautiful, Helpful, and Help-the-World Person

Dear Living and Giving team,
 
This is a confidential message I sent to our wonderful UniversalGiving team… I hope you enjoy.
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Hi Team,

This has helped me for many, many years… it’s a wonderful encouragement on how we can be our best not just at work, but in life. Stephen Covey was a mastermind on how to be a beautiful, helpful, and help-the-world person.

It’s about being purposeful, responsible, kind, listening and balanced. It takes care of you — and others.

I hope you enjoy. Sometimes I just work on one facet, for the entire day.

Below is my summary, and the full excerpt is below. What moves you the most?  What areas are you working on?

Happy Weekend, Happy Life!

Sincerely, Pamela

With Yourself
Take responsibility for your choices
Clarify your deeply important character values
Prioritize, plan, and execute

With People
Genuinely strive for mutually beneficial solutions
Listen to be genuinely influenced by a person
Combine the strengths of people through positive teamwork, so as to achieve goals no one person could have done alone.

Back To You
Balance and renew your resources, energy, and health 

Sincerely,
Pamela

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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

By Stephen R. Covey

The seven habits move us progressively on a continuum from dependence to independence to interdependence.

Independence or Self-Mastery

The first three habits are about moving from dependence to independence.

Habit 1. Be Proactive: Take initiative in life by realizing that your decisions (and how they align with life’s principles) are the primary determining factor for effectiveness in your life. Take responsibility for your choices and the subsequent consequences that follow.

Habit 2. Begin with the End in Mind: Self-discover and clarify your deeply important character values and life goals. Envision the ideal characteristics for each of your various roles and relationships in life.

Habit 3. Put First Things First: Prioritize, plan, and execute your week’s tasks based on importance rather than urgency. Evaluate whether your efforts exemplify your desired character values, propel you toward goals, and enrich the roles and relationships that were elaborated in Habit 2.

Interdependence

The next three habits are about interdependence (working with others).

Habit 4. Think Win-Win: Genuinely strive for mutually beneficial solutions or agreements in your relationships. Value and respect people by understanding a “win” for all is ultimately a better long-term resolution than if only one person in the situation had gotten his way.

Habit 5. Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood: Use empathic listening to be genuinely influenced by a person, which compels them to reciprocate the listening and take an open mind to being influenced by you. This creates an atmosphere of caring, respect, and positive problem solving.

Habit 6. Synergize: Combine the strengths of people through positive teamwork, so as to achieve goals no one person could have done alone. Get the best performance out of a group of people through encouraging meaningful contribution, and modeling inspirational and supportive leadership.

Self Renewal

The last habit relates to self-rejuvenation.

Habit 7. Sharpen the Saw: Balance and renew your resources, energy, and health to create a sustainable, long-term, effective lifestyle. This habit primarily emphasizes exercise for physical renewal, prayer (meditation, yoga) and good reading for mental renewal. It also mentions service to the society for spiritual renewal.

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